Don't Judge Me (Or My Plant Picks)!
comments (12) June 25th, 2009 in blogs
I love geraniums and pelargoniums. So sue me.
Ever since I was a child, I've been drawn to these weedy scented plants, veering toward them in the nursery and mulling over their different leaf and flower options. Not until many years later did I realize how many people loathe these plants. I've heard comments that the geranium's weedy scent stinks, that the flowers are tacky, and that the plants sometimes leggy appearance isn't appealing. To all of these comments I say STOP. I throw my hands up over my ears and scream "I can't hear you" at the top of my lungs.
Say what you want in the nursery. It's a public place. However, when you enter the front door of my home, you better zip it up. I once had an unassuming guest take one look at my new 'Mrs. Pollock' pelargonium and 'Black Heart' sweet potato vine (freshly potted up, I might add), cringe up his face a little and say "The tie-dye color makes that plant look fake." Oh, the horror of it all. My plants are sensitive, and I don't take kindly to insults made against them. So for the future, dear guest, I say keep your opinions to yourself. We can argue over politics, religion, even women's rights - but don't you bring your plant trash talk to my table. You wouldn't go up to someone on the street and say "Hey, your baby is ugly." I expect the same courtesy for my plants. If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all.
posted in: Geranium, potted plants, 'Mrs. Pollock' Pelargonium, sweet potato vine
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Comments (12)
Another attribute is high impact color with big blossoms from afar. Posted: 7:20 pm on July 7th
Posted: 2:15 pm on July 4th
There's always people who feel the need to put others down in some sort of an effort to raise themselves up. Unfortunately, it just ends up lowering them even further.
I believe if someone is even THINKING about gardening, despite their personal tastes, that's a GOOD thing. And as we all know - credentials don't guarantee 'style'!! Facts, yes. Style, well...that's something you're born with.
Whether or not I like the plant you showed is irrelevant. Thanks for sharing - THAT'S what's important! Posted: 10:30 am on June 30th
identified with their botanical names, do not follow trends, and could care less about uneducated opinions.
I have my criteria, credentials to choose. After all a garden
depends on variables such as microclimates, salt breeze, soil drainage and not just futile aesthetics.
For these reasons I look for no validation, opinions from
others since one may change the plants with time, but the
conditions remain for ever... Posted: 7:39 am on June 30th
You go, girl! Don't let anyone tell you different. Posted: 4:02 pm on June 29th
silly hedges, one should be adult, mature enough to take
criticism, creative or not.
As a Creative Horticultural Critic with credentials, I make constant criticism in my blog. I give and take with indifference unless there is something to be learned from
the critic.
Why should people express only good thoughts? If
the installation stinks, it does, keeping quiet about it
does not change a bit. Posted: 6:43 pm on June 28th
Stick to your guns. Posted: 1:36 am on June 26th
I think a lot of people are afraid of change, of making mistakes and unsure of how to put stuff together. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Thank you for venturing, it's nice to know you don't have to be a master or professor or big time horticulturalist to have your own voice, outside where it can shine.
Posted: 6:14 pm on June 25th
BYE......JIMMY Posted: 11:49 am on June 25th